How to ask your daughter if she is gay
5 Powerful Things You Can Accomplish If Your Child Tells You, "I'm Gay."
You may not contain been expecting to hear the words "I'm gay" from your child. Not only did you never envision it, but your religious beliefs and values also do not align with homosexual relationships. So, what do you do now? How do you respond to your child telling you they're gay?
As a parent, you may have had the inclination that your child may be gay. As a product, the news may simply verify your suspicions, and the conversation may be easy. On the contrary, you may feel enraged or shocked. Likewise, you may struggle with the idea and have a natural tendency to shut down the conversation or put it off as merely a phase they're going through. In reality, regardless of how you feel, the way you respond in the first five minutes could set the tone for your child for years to come.
In this article, we'll discuss the critical moments after your child comes to you and says, "I'm gay." With the help of Dr. Devon Mills is a licensed therapist in Atlanta, GA, we'll showcase five po
Inside:Is my teen daughter a lesbian? Maybe or maybe not, but here’s how to handle this sensitive teenage sexuality topic
This post was contributed by Jill Whitney, LMFT
So much about teen sexuality is different from what it was a couple decades ago.
Where once it was awkward, if not unsafe, to be anything other than straight, we now talk openly about a spectrum of orientations and genders. Sexual diversity has broken out of the closet—to the point where being LGBTQ is courteous of cool.
So don’t be surprised if your teen or even tween daughter announces at some show that she’s a sapphic. It’s more common than you might think these days.
But you may wonder whether your teen daughter is a lesbian for real, or whether it’s just a phase. Maybe she’s just experimenting; maybe she’ll increase out of it. Or maybe not.
How do you know?
Acceptance Needs to Be Unconditional
Unfortunately, there’s no way to tell. Some girls who experiment with same-sex partners finish up happily straight. Other young women
As I relayed in When Your Minor Is Gay: What You Need To Know (Sterling, ), I found out that my son was gay from a note with our son's specify entwined with another boy's, surrounded by a heart. I accidentally found that note in his room when I was cleaning.
I never questioned him about the heart I found on the sly. How would I have brought it up? Expect I was wrong? After all, he had a infatuation on a lady in his class.
I had suspected at times that he was homosexual. He only had girls to his thirteenth birthday party. He preferred gentler sports. He was always concerned about how he looked and followed fashion. Were these stereotypical thoughts from a straight mother? You bet, but it was ingrained through the culture's binary system and ideas about how males were "supposed to" behave.
As it turns out, our son didn't come out until he was 17, was on his own, and brought a crush to visit. Had I asked him if he were gay when he was 13, he probably would hold defensively said "No!" He had to work it out and work through his denial. I'm glad I muzzled myself.
Susan Berland, the mother o
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