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In , nestled in the heart of New York City at Santos Party Property, DJ Dan Darlington ignited a spark that would transform the LGBTQ+ events scene. He created BRÜT, a leading underground homosexual party in the USA, posthaste establishing itself as an necessary part of the city’s nightlife with a symphony of master beats of incredible House Tech awakening everyone’s soul.
Initially catering to men in leather and fixation gear, BRÜT has grown to celebrate confident libertine energy, diversity, and the freedom to state oneself without judgment, encouraging all partygoers to come in their sexiest, making it one of the most sought-after underground male lover parties in NYC.
The house song sanctuary that began in Fresh York rapidly escalated, expanding across the United States within the LGBTQ+ community, gathering thousands of people from different cities from all over the world.
Today, BRÜT Party is renowned for hosting popular gay parties across the United States, including our famous Halloween party in Los Angeles, Folsom Street Fair, Dore Footpath San Francisco, SF Prid
When Cameron moved to the UK from the Philippines in , he couldnt believe how openly MSM (men who have sex with men) spoke about barebacking. When he opened Grindr, he saw profiles with the bio bb only: common shorthand for solely wanting bareback, or condomless anal sex. Other profiles specified a preference for raw fucking – another synonym for condomless anal – or used the synonyms breeding as a euphemism for taking a load.
Cameron was taken back because in his homeland, the idea of enjoying condomless anal sex with multiple partners is very taboo due to the rising HIV infection rate. But when he was asked on Grindr to join a private WhatsApp collective for around MSM who enjoy regular barebacking, he was intrigued enough to say yes. Being in this WhatsApp group has made me realise how fun this compassionate of sex can be – as long as you recognise both the risks and the pleasures involved, he says.
When gay mens health organisation GMFA surveyed 1, homosexual and bi men in , 46 percent said that at least half of their anal sex experiences were co
Injecting drugs
Sometimes people inject crystal meth and mephedrone. With this there is an increased risk of infections and viruses like HIV and HEP A&B. To minimise your risk never share needles.
Set Group Rules
Agree in advance, and while sober, what sex you want to have and dont want to have. Make sure everyone is in agreement about what is going to happen and respect others boundaries.
Safer Sex?
Be upfront about the type of sex you want to possess including if you want to use condoms. and bring safer sex materials with you. Not using condoms can put you at chance of STIs, and people on certain drugs may have rougher sex increasing the risk of bleeding and infection.
PrEP
PrEP is a drug which, when taken correctly, prevents you from contracting HIV. If you are going to own unproteced sex with muliple partners and under the influence of drugs PrEP could be beneficial in limiting your peril of HIV infection.
Other substances?
You should avoid mixing drugs, with alcohol and any other drugs and never mix poppers with erectile drugs
What Is Bareback Sex?
"Bareback sex" is a common phrase in the gay male community that originated in the mid-'90s; it means having anal sex without a condom.
The expression stems from equestrianism: You're said to be riding “bareback” when you're riding a horse without a saddle. When you're riding a man—or a human is riding you—without a condom, well, that’s bareback sex. (More recently, the term has been co-opted by some straight folks to describe unprotected vaginal penetration, too.)
There are thoughtful risks to having anal or vaginal sex without a condom—STIs being the main one. (Vaginal sex comes with the uncertainty of unplanned pregnancy, but that can be mitigated with other forms of contraception.) Still, there are plenty of people out there who knowingly get the risk to own bareback sex with their partners. Some folks speak they hate the feeling of condoms (though we'd argue they haven't create the right one yet); others say it makes them feel closer to their partner, or that they like the truth that it's "taboo."
If you're curious about the origins of bareback